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Maggie Schroeder's avatar

I went to my first eagle fest last Saturday, an extremely cold day on Plum Island in MA. It was a spur of the moment decision to sign up just before midnight on Valentine's Day. My intuition told me that my almost year long relationship might be ending soon and I didn't want to be alone. About a dozen people joined our Meetup group and we eagerly hiked seven miles over ice-covered terrain along the Merrimack River. We were rewarded with the siting of only a single eagle perched on a tree limb - alone but with a commanding presence.

A fellow hiker told me that a 64 year old woman I knew named J had died unexpectedly in her sleep two days earlier. It was a stark reminder that life is precious and I shouldn't take it for granted.

Another hiker told me that a woman I knew years ago was a close friend of his. And at age 97 M is still living an active life continuing her internationally recognized work in environmental conservation. M once shared that she began this work as a means of dealing with her deep depression. Perhaps M's reappearance in my life is a reminder that I need to get back to a vision I set for myself to keep making good progress in riding life's waves.

Thanks, Jane, for sharing your beautiful writing and insights. They have helped me get clarity as I sort out my own next chapter. And, yes, that relationship I mentioned earlier did come to an end.

Heading out to meet a new friend I made at the eagle fest. Sometimes it is better for me to fly than to hold on tight.

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Jane Finette's avatar

Maggie! An Eagle Fest! WOW that is so cool. And I am so very sorry I missed this. I am not too sure how that happened. And bless you for writing and sharing. It's just wonderful to read your words on that post, though I know it was a difficult time and with the loss of a friend too.

And I hope you won't just fly my dear dear friend, but soar as high as you can go xxxx

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Carolyn Hunter's avatar

So beautiful. Every word and phrase such poetry. Thank you Jane. As one who has seasonal depression this is such a good reminder not to fight or surrender but watch how winter weaves its way into and through my life.

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Jane Finette's avatar

Dearest Carolyn, thank you so dearly for sharing. I know this time of year gets harder and harder.. even when there are a few warm days, it seems endless. I'm so pleased a few words might have brought you comfort. You are such an incredible woman. <3

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